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Learn how to apply Roger Martin’s Playing to Win strategy framework to your marriage. Discover five practical questions every couple should ask to design a thriving relationship with clarity, purpose, and long-term success.

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Discover how marital preparation can spark lasting intimacy, deepen connection, and create a fulfilling sexual future for newlywed couples. Start the conversation about sex, connection, and growth before boredom arises so your marriage thrives emotionally, spiritually, and physically.

Design your dream marriage with Mastering Matrimony's revolutionary workbook. 220+ guided conversations help couples create a personalized marriage masterplan. Stop guessing, start intentionally building a relationship that's uniquely yours. Prepare for lasting love, not just a wedding day.

Like I said, I thought I was marrying my best friend. We laughed together, explored the world together, and talked about everything that fascinated us. Yet, it all abruptly crashed the day after the wedding. Yes, you heard right, the day after.

One random morning, you're sitting there having coffee, and it hits you: getting married was the easy part. The wedding planning that seemed so stressful? That was just practice for the real thing. Actually being married - that's the challenge no one prepared you for.

Today's couples only know what they see and experience around them - and unfortunately, marriage hasn't been modeled as a healthy relationship in recent decades. In my conversations with singles, many question whether marriage should be part of their future. They fear its outcome and potential emotional trauma. The statistics aren't encouraging: 54% of today's marriages end in divorce, while another 30% continue in unhappy unions. These numbers hardly inspire confidence in ma

Marriage rarely ends in one dramatic moment. It’s not always a sudden betrayal or explosive argument that marks the final chapter. Instead, many marriages fade away slowly, like a death by a thousand papercuts – tiny moments of disconnect, small breaches of trust, and minor resentments that accumulate over time until the relationship quietly bleeds out.   The Foundation: Know Thyself First Before we can address the wounds that slowly drain a marriage, we must confront a funda

There's a pattern of things that is ultimately destroy marriages. Surprisingly, they aren't the dramatic events we see in movies. Instead, it's the quiet erosion that happens when we enter marriage without Truly Understanding Ourselves or the Depth of Commitment we're making in our marriage. Let's talk about something that might feel uncomfortable but could save your marriage before it even begins: Self-Awareness. The hard truth is that many of us enter marriage as incomplete

As someone who works with engaged and newly married couples, I wanted to have a heart-to-heart conversation about something really important: choosing your life partner wisely and protecting yourself in this complicated world. Let's start with some sobering statistics that recently caught my attention: roughly 1% of adults are estimated to be Psychopaths, 3% are Sociopaths, and 6% exhibit traits of Narcissistic Personality Disorder. That's a total of 10% of adults who fall i

In an age where we meticulously plan our careers, vacations, and even our meals, it's startling to realize how little thought many couples give to planning their marriages. Yet, research consistently shows that couples who engage in premarital preparation are 30% less likely to divorce and report higher marital satisfaction. This stark reality begs the question: Are we approaching marriage with the seriousness it deserves? The Changing Face of Marriage Today's marriages bear

Think of your marriage as a startup. Sounds weird, right? But stick with me. Picture this: a marriage business plan. It's like Google Maps for your life together. No more aimless wandering or butting heads over which turn to take. You're on the same page, heading towards shared dreams. Now, don't panic. We're not talking spreadsheets and quarterly reports here. Your plan is as unique as your love story. It's a living document that grows with you, not a straitjacket. The best

Is your idea of marriage still stuck in the past? Today's marriages are evolving, challenging traditional norms and expectations. From redefining roles to embracing flexibility, modern couples are writing their own rulebooks. In this post, we'll explore how marriage has transformed and provide you with insights to navigate these changes, helping you build a more resilient, fulfilling, and contemporary partnership. Unpacking Modern Marriage Picture this: You're catching up wi

You've found the one, you're madly in love, and you're ready to take the plunge into marriage. But when someone suggests a marital preparation course, you both freeze up. Don't worry; you're not alone! Many couples feel hesitant about these courses. Let's dive deep into the top 10 fears that might be holding you back and why they shouldn't stop you from investing in your relationship's future. 1. "What if we discover we're not compatible?" It's natural to worry that a course

You're likely wondering how to create a truly exceptional marriage. While Napoleon Hill's "Think and Grow Rich" is renowned for its financial wisdom, its principles can revolutionize your relationship, fostering a thriving, passionate, and fulfilling partnership. A crucial first step in your marital journey is crafting a comprehensive Marital Life Plan inspired by Hill's teachings. Just as businesses rely on strategic plans, your marriage deserves a thoughtful roadmap for suc

In our quest for personal growth and fulfillment, we often overlook one of the most important aspects of our lives: our marriages. The wisdom shared in Robin Sharma's "The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari" offers profound insights that can transform not just individuals, but partnerships as well. Let's explore how couples can apply these teachings to create an extraordinary marriage.   1. The Ritual of Solitude: Finding Peace Together Why it matters : In our bustling world, moments

What if you both approached your marriage (while it’s still loving and on good terms) with a concept of; “Honey, God forbid anything should happen during our marriage that would lead us to divide, I want to make sure you’re protected. So let’s talk about how we can do that.” Many couples, swept up in the romance of their relationship, often overlook a crucial fact: marriage is, at its core, a legally binding contract governed by state laws. This reality often only comes to li

Just as any important life decision, envisioning your endgame gives you the opportunity to determine the small steps needed from the beginning to achieve your vision. Your marriage is no different. While we can all picture being happy, healthy, and prosperous 30 years down the road, do we take actionable steps to build a relationship that works smoother, more efficiently, and with purpose? Ask yourselves; What are you willing to do to equip yourself for the marathon of marria

Marriage preparation and enrichment courses   have unfairly earned a reputation as a last resort, the final lifeline thrown in the direction of sinking relationships. Many couples naively believe these programs are exclusively for marriages crumbling under the weight of dysfunction, infidelity, or imminent divorce. "We don't need that; we're in love," is the all-too-common refrain from those who assume that true love is an unshakable foundation, impervious to the erosive chal